Make 2018 a year to remember! Start the year off with some exciting New Year’s sex resolutions. Here at So Divine, we want you to enjoy your New Year by having more fun and excitement in the bedroom.
Be More Adventurous
Let’s be honest here, the same old routine again and again can get a bit boring after a while. So why not try and spice things up a bit? Even the smallest of changes can make a big difference. Try taking sex out of the bedroom into other rooms in the house, spend longer on foreplay and try out some daring new positions you wouldn’t usually go for.
Experiment With Sex Toys
Sex toys are an easy way of interjecting more excitement into your sex life. If you’ve only tried out a small selection of sex toys before then why not try out some more? Switch up from your average bullet vibrator to something a bit more daring. Butt plugs or booty plugs as we like to call them, are a whole new game changer if you’ve not already tried them. Bringing them into your sex life can take your orgasms to a whole new dimension…so what are you waiting for, New Year and time for a new toy.
Get To Know Your Body
The best way to increase your chances of having an orgasm is by getting to know yourself down there. The more you learn about your body and what works best for you – the more you can teach your partner how to pleasure you. Your partner can’t please you if you don’t know how to please yourself! So go on…treat yourself to some solo action and get to know what works best for you.
Communicate With Your Partner
Communication is crucial for a healthy relationship and if you’re looking to improve your sex life then it’s important to speak up about your sex life. Just be honest and open about what what you like and dislike in bed. Remember…you can’t get what you don’t ask for.
Be More Body Confident
If you’ve ever had body confidence issue during sex then you’re not alone. A survey from the Daily Mail showed that 52 percent of women have avoided or postponed sex because they were feeling too self-conscious about their body. It’s important to be happy and confident with your body. Start off by focusing on what you do like and learn to love your imperfections. When we feel conscious about ourselves, it can distract us from the act, which sometimes prevent us from having an orgasm. So stop focusing on your body imperfections and instead focus on your pleasure.
If there’s one type of exercise we should take up this New Year, then our vote would go to Kegel exercises. Kegel exercises can have a significant impact on your sex life, so there’s never a better time to start. By improving your pelvic floor muscles, you can have longer lasting orgasms and a more pleasurable experience in the bedroom. If you’re looking to take your orgasms to the next level then we suggest sexercising more often.