Weight and Squee
During climax, the muscles in your pelvic floor contract and convulse. It makes sense, then, that the stronger these muscles are, the stronger your orgasms will be. One of the easiest ways you can strengthen these muscles is by doing regular pelvic floor (or kegel) exercises with a set of kegel balls or weights. Simply insert one of the weights into your vagina as you go about your normal business, and allow your pelvic floor to do the rest! Your body will instinctively clench around the balls to hold them inside of you, giving your pelvic floor a thorough workout. (Plus they are a great way to encourage natural lubrication prior to playtime.) Use regularly for increased vaginal strength and powerhouse orgasms!
Edge of Glory
Edging is an amazing way to strengthen and lengthen the duration of your climax. To edge your way to orgasm, keep your session slow and steady. Avoid speeding up, adding extra stimulation or trying to race to the finish line – in fact you want to do exactly the opposite. Whilst playing, pay attention to how close you are getting to the ‘point of no return’ and, just as you reach that point, stop playing. Allow your body and mind to ‘cool down’ before going back to pleasuring yourself. See how many times you can do this before allowing yourself to reach the Big O. By building up incrementally like this, your chances of having a much more powerful orgasm are vastly increased. My favourite toy for easy clitoral edging is a suction toy like the Self Pleasure Clitoral Suction Stimulator.
You may have heard the term ‘blended orgasm’, which is the key to climax for most people with a clitoris, but what does it mean? A blended orgasm refers to when two (or more) different areas of the body are being stimulated at the same time in order to achieve orgasm. For many people, the more areas which are being stimulated at once, the more intense the climax can be, and with sex toys offering a helping hand, it’s easier than ever to play with multiple areas at the same time (even on your own!). With a setup like the Self Pleasure Rabbit Vibrator and Sweet Sensations Booty Plug, you can titillate your clitoris, G-spot and anus in tandem, and all with one hand. Feeling adventurous? Make it a foursome by wearing the Self Pleasure Finger Vibrator on your other hand and use it to explore other erogenous zones, like the nipples.
Jolly Good Show
Most humans are extremely visual creatures, and many of our turn-ons begin with what we see. Harness this power to enhance your orgasms by watching yourself play. This can be by playing in front of a mirror or by filming yourself on your phone. The act of watching yourself not only activates all the right areas of your brain, but it can also feel kind of ‘naughty’, which only adds to the excitement and, therefore, satisfaction!
A sure-fire way to increase orgasmic potential is to heighten sensitivity and this is easily done with the use of a lube or, better still, a stimulating gel like the So Divine Menthol Orgasm Gel. Infused with tingling, cooling menthol which encourages blood flow and enhances glide, it instantly intensifies every touch. Want to take it a step further? Combine it with the Self Pleasure Clitoral Suction Stimulator, which also boosts circulation, for a sheet-gripping clitoral orgasm.
It’s All In The Hips
Getting your whole body involved in playtime better emulates partnered sex which, for many, helps to get their mind and genitals ‘in the zone’, resulting in stronger climaxes. One way to do this is to move your hips (rather than your hand, for example) to grind or ride a toy. A great toy for achieving this sort of motion is a suction cup dildo like the Glorious 7 Inch Realistic Dildo. With its strong suction cup that can be adhered to any smooth surface, a dual density shaft and lifelike head and balls that feel just like the real thing, you can ride it hands-free and simulate penetrative sex with a partner with surprising realism.