July 3, 2025

12 Essential Sex Toy Dos and Don'ts

in Sex Toy Know How

When we say playtime, we mean playtime. Sex toys are all about having a good time but a little know-how goes a long way in making sure your experience is safe, satisfying, and drama-free.

So before you dive into your pleasure drawer, take a moment to read our essential tips for getting frisky the smart way.

Do...

💖 Start small
If you're new to toys, ease in with the smallest size. Confidence builds with comfort.

💖 Do your homework
Read reviews, blogs (like ours!), and check out user experiences before choosing a toy.

💖 Keep it clean
Always wash your toys with warm water and gentle soap or a toy-safe cleaner. Store them somewhere dry, clean, and discreet.

💖 Use lube - always
Lube makes everything better, especially when it comes to penetration. It reduces friction and boosts pleasure.

💖 Match your lube to your toy
Silicone toys pair best with water-based lubricants to avoid damaging the material.

💖 Explore what excites you
There’s a whole world of pleasure to discover-solo or with a partner. Don’t be afraid to try new sensations

❌ Don’t...

🚫 Feel pressured
If you’re not ready or not feeling it, that’s okay. Only explore what you’re comfortable with.

🚫 Share without care
Always clean toys between partners or use a condom if you’re sharing.

🚫 Mix bum and vaginal play
Bacteria from the back door should never travel forward. Make sure you wash toys or change condoms if you switch.

🚫 Insert unsafe items
Only use toys designed specifically for anal play - look for a flared base to avoid any unwanted surprises.

🚫 Buy porous toys
Avoid toys made from porous materials - they’re harder to clean and can harbor bacteria. Stick to body-safe materials like silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel.

🚫 Give up too soon
Sometimes it takes a few tries to find your rhythm with a new toy. Stay curious. Your pleasure is worth exploring

Want to know more about which toys are right for you?
Check out our Beginner’s Sex Toy Guide to get started with confidence.

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