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The Benefits Of Kegel Exercises
What Are Kegel Balls? Kegel Balls are a way to help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. Kegels involve squeezing your pelvic-floor muscles. These muscle support the bladder, uterus, rectum and intestines. By exercising the pelvic floor muscles it can have a variety of benefits which will be discussed. How Do They Work? Your internal muscles react to the free moving balls, clenching them to keep them in place. You can experience subtle pleasure sensations as well as pelvic floor muscle tightening for more intense orgasms. What Are The Benefits Of Kegel Exercises ? Strengthens and tightens PC muscles Increases blood flow to the pelvic area Prevents urinary incontinent as you age Helps recover from physical stress, including child birth Improves sexual response and function Great for building more intense orgasms Improves your control over bladder and bowel function How Do You Use Kegel Balls? 1. Firstly we recommend cleaning the kegels balls before and after using warm soapy water. 2. Then coat with plenty of water-based lubricant which will make it easier to insert the balls. 3. Wear for 15-30 minutes at least three times per week for an effective kegel work out. Start off with the lightest kegel ball and progress to the heaviest kegel ball for increased sensitivity and orgasm control. Whether your walking, jogging or dancing you can experience an internal stimulation and a discreet kegel exercise. Purchase the So Divine Kegel Ball Training Set for only £29.99
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A Guide To Using Bullet Vibrators
Bullet vibrators are one of the most popular and versatile sex toys out there and it’s easy to see why. Compact, discreet, and incredibly powerful, these little devices can bring a lot of pleasure to your solo play or spice things up with a partner. If you’re new to bullet vibrators or just curious about how to get the most out of yours, this guide is for you. What Is a Bullet Vibrator? A bullet vibrator is a small, typically cylindrical vibrator designed for external stimulation. It’s usually smooth, lightweight, and easy to handle, making it perfect for targeting sensitive areas like the clitoris, nipples, or other erogenous zones. Despite their size, bullet vibrators can pack a serious punch when it comes to delivering powerful vibrations. Why Choose a Bullet Vibrator? Compact and Portable: Easy to carry in your bag or travel kit. Discreet: Small size makes them quiet and subtle. Beginner Friendly: Simple to use with no complicated settings. Affordable: Generally more budget-friendly than larger toys. Versatile: Great for solo play or as a fun addition to couple’s intimacy. How to Use a Bullet Vibrator Start Slow: Turn it on and begin with the lowest setting to get used to the sensation. Explore: Try moving the bullet across different sensitive spots like the clitoris, inner thighs, nipples, or even perineum. Add Lube: Using a water-based lubricant can make the experience smoother and more enjoyable. Try Different Patterns: Many bullets come with multiple vibration modes. Experiment to find what feels best. Include Your Partner: Bullet vibrators are perfect for couple’s play. Try using it during foreplay or intercourse to enhance stimulation. Tips for Getting the Most Pleasure Out Of Your Bullet Vibrator Don’t Rush: Take your time exploring what feels good. Use Your Hands: Combining the bullet with manual touch can intensify sensations. Switch It Up: Change positions or try different vibration speeds and patterns. Keep It Clean: Wash your bullet vibrator before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Store Safely: Keep it in a clean, dry place. Many come with their own pouch for discreet storage. Safety and Care Always choose body-safe materials like silicone or ABS plastic. Avoid sharing toys without proper cleaning, and never use silicone-based lube with silicone toys as it can degrade the material. Ready to experience the pleasure of a bullet vibrator? Explore So Divine’s range of stylish, powerful, and beginner-friendly bullets designed to deliver pure delight whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner.
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Why You Should Buy A Vibrator
The Sex Toy Taboo is Breaking — And We’re Here for It! Remember when sex toys were secret purchases, hidden away and barely whispered about? Those days are officially over! Today, sexual well-being is out in the open, and people, especially women are talking more freely about masturbation. That’s right, it’s not just a guy thing. At So Divine, we’re all about celebrating this shift, and we think you should too! Sex toys are nothing to be ashamed of. With more mainstream stores stocking them, there’s no need for embarrassment. After all, sex is one of the most natural and joyful parts of life. They’re Great for Your Health — Really! Believe it or not, sex toys come with some fantastic health benefits. From reducing stress to helping you fall asleep faster, there’s a lot to love about incorporating masturbation and sex toys into your routine. It’s self-care in a whole new way. You Can Even Pick Them Up at Your Local Supermarket Yes, you read that right! So Divine products are now available in big-name retailers like ASDA and Tesco. The days of feeling intimidated by seedy, overwhelming sex shops are behind us. Mainstream stores are embracing sex toys, making it easier and more comfortable than ever to shop for your pleasure. Explore New Sensations If you’ve never tried a vibrator, get ready for a game-changer. Vibrators can deliver faster, more intense orgasms and open the door to sensations you might never have experienced before. They’re especially helpful if you’ve found it tricky to orgasm or just want to explore something new. Once you try one, it’s hard to go back! Spice Up Your Sex Life Looking to add some extra excitement to your intimate moments? Sex toys are perfect for that! If you’re new to using toys with your partner, start simple -cock rings are super easy to use and can stimulate both of you at once. They’re a great way to bring fresh energy into your sex life without any fuss. There’s a Vibrator for Everyone Worried you won’t find the right vibrator for you? Don’t be! There truly is a toy for every taste and experience level. Beginners love bullet vibrators for their simplicity. Couples often turn to massage wands for shared pleasure. And if you’re curious about anal play, butt plugs might be your perfect match. The options are endless! Ready to join the movement and celebrate your sexual well-being? Browse our range at So Divine and find your perfect pleasure partner today.
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12 Essential Sex Toy Dos and Don'ts
When we say playtime, we mean playtime. Sex toys are all about having a good time but a little know-how goes a long way in making sure your experience is safe, satisfying, and drama-free. So before you dive into your pleasure drawer, take a moment to read our essential tips for getting frisky the smart way. Do... 💖 Start smallIf you're new to toys, ease in with the smallest size. Confidence builds with comfort. 💖 Do your homeworkRead reviews, blogs (like ours!), and check out user experiences before choosing a toy. 💖 Keep it cleanAlways wash your toys with warm water and gentle soap or a toy-safe cleaner. Store them somewhere dry, clean, and discreet. 💖 Use lube - alwaysLube makes everything better, especially when it comes to penetration. It reduces friction and boosts pleasure. 💖 Match your lube to your toySilicone toys pair best with water-based lubricants to avoid damaging the material. 💖 Explore what excites youThere’s a whole world of pleasure to discover-solo or with a partner. Don’t be afraid to try new sensations ❌ Don’t... 🚫 Feel pressuredIf you’re not ready or not feeling it, that’s okay. Only explore what you’re comfortable with. 🚫 Share without careAlways clean toys between partners or use a condom if you’re sharing. 🚫 Mix bum and vaginal playBacteria from the back door should never travel forward. Make sure you wash toys or change condoms if you switch. 🚫 Insert unsafe itemsOnly use toys designed specifically for anal play - look for a flared base to avoid any unwanted surprises. 🚫 Buy porous toysAvoid toys made from porous materials - they’re harder to clean and can harbor bacteria. Stick to body-safe materials like silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel. 🚫 Give up too soonSometimes it takes a few tries to find your rhythm with a new toy. Stay curious. Your pleasure is worth exploring Want to know more about which toys are right for you?Check out our Beginner’s Sex Toy Guide to get started with confidence.
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Backdoor Beauty: A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Pleasure
This Month, Our Minds Are on a Different Kind of Booty Call… And no, we’re not talking about late-night texts. We’re talking about the kind of booty play that brings real pleasure—and real empowerment. Why? Because we think it’s time everyone discovered just how enjoyable anal play can be. And with our Sweet Sensation Booty Plug already turning heads (and heating things up), it feels like the perfect time to get the conversation flowing. While sex toys have thankfully shaken off their taboo status, anal pleasure is still something people shy away from talking about. But we believe it’s time that changed. Did you know? Aside from the genitals, the anus contains more nerve endings than almost any other part of the body. That means anal stimulation can create seriously intense sensations—and we’d hate for you to miss out. When done right, anal play can:✨ Take your orgasms to the next level🍑 Elevate foreplay, spanking, and sensual exploration🔥 Add an entirely new dynamic to partnered sex or solo play So let’s break the silence—and start enjoying. Whether you’re just beginning or looking to explore further, here are some beginner-friendly tips to help you dive in with confidence. 1. Go Slow and Stay Relaxed If you’re new to anal play, it’s completely normal to feel like your body is resisting at first—that’s just your muscles doing their thing. The key? Take your time and use plenty of water-based lubricant. Arousal helps, so make sure you’re turned on before anything goes near your booty. 2. Start Small The anal muscles need a bit of warm-up. That’s why our Sweet Sensation Booty Plug is ideal for beginners—it’s soft, slim, and designed for easy, comfortable insertion. With enough lube and a gentle touch, you’ll build up to a pleasurable and confident experience. 3. Safety First, Always Rule number one of anal play: nothing without a flared base. This ensures your plug stays exactly where you want it. Sweet Sensation’s flared base makes it safe, while its flexible, body-safe silicone material makes it comfy and suitable for those with sensitivities. Feeling Curious to Go Bigger? Once you’re feeling confident and ready to step it up, our Bootylicious Medium Booty Plug is here for round two. Slightly larger in size, it offers a deeper, fuller sensation while staying just as safe and chic. Anal pleasure should feel exciting, not intimidating—and with the right toys, the right info, and a little curiosity, it absolutely can be. Whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner, one thing’s for sure: pleasure doesn’t follow rules—and it certainly doesn’t stop at the front.
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What is a bullet vibrator and how do you use one?
Bullet vibrators have always been one of the most popular sex toys on the market, not only are they perfect for those new to using sex toys but also for they are compact and simple to use, whilst offering effective and intense pleasure. Sexpert Debbie Bere answers some of your most asked questions all about bullet vibrators, how you use them and why they are a popular choice when it comes to sex toys. What is a bullet vibrator? A bullet vibrator is a small cylindrical vibrator that fits within the palm of your hand. Usually with a rounded or tapered tip they can often have a metallic or silicone finish and come in a variety of colours and designs. Bullets differ from conventional penetrative vibrators as they tend to be small, really simple to work and are used for external play. Think extra stimulation with pinpoint accuracy perhaps to the clitoris, nipples, perineum, or penis. Gone are the days when sex toys resemble a penis. These pocket-sized babes are here to rock your world. They are discreet, fun-packed and can spice up your sex life from beginner level to expert. Why are bullets vibrators so popular? Bullet vibes due to their size and stature, take the focus away from penetration. This is crucial for those with a vulva with almost 80% needing some sort of clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. But, it is also an added little treat if you have a penis too. A bullet is an excellent starter toy for many out on the hunt for their first battery-operated pleasure provider. Once you own one you can use this to explore your body and different sensations, without breaking the bank. When you find what feels good to you, perhaps you may invest in something a little more specific to your favourite spot that gets you off! These toys are a space saver too, slipping discretely into your bag for some fun later. Small and non-threatening bullets are a clear teammate rather than a competitor for any partner that perhaps feels vulnerable or gets defensive when you suggest the use of a toy. These vibes can be incorporated into all kinds of sexual play both together and separately. What are you top tips for using a bullet vibrator? When you get a bullet vibrator take time to familiarise yourself with the settings. Start the gentlest one and build up, some people like vibrations that are constant other people enjoy the pattern ones. You will find your favourite but it may even be 2 or 3 favourites used in order to build up to your climax. Remember lube to help with comfort and sensitivity. lube is not just for penetration. It's for all pressure and friction and makes any sexual play more pleasurable – even if it’s a night in for one! lube does not mean you’re not enjoying yourself because you’re not “wet enough”. Actually, our vaginal ‘wetness’ is often down to hormones rather than how turned on you are. So, lube is you’re new absolute bestie. Why not try gently applying lube to your clitoris and labia, the vulva can experience pleasure from all different areas. Then take your bullet and focus on each side of your vulva, and inner and outer labia as well as your clitoris. Use the whole length of the bullet by holding it on its side not just pointing it. Discover where and what feels good. Why not also try your perineum. It’s also very important to remember that bullet vibes are not suitable for anal penetration! Anal toys should be specifically designed for such and always have a flared base. Can you use a bullet during partner play/sex? Toys are a significant enhancement to partnered play. Bullets make this super easy, they are compact and simple to use and position in the heat of the moment. Here are a few things that you could try with your partner: Penis play – bullets aren’t just for vulvas, when giving a blow job place some lube on the tip of the bullet and place on their perineum just behind the balls. Pushing gently up to massage that spot. Hard to reach positions – When in positions where perhaps your clitoris is being neglected (e.g. Doggy, Spooning), get your partner to reach around and help you hold a bullet on your clitoris. This makes the experience more intense, increasing pleasure. Zero penetration – Why not take penetrative sex off the table? Explore how you can make each other tick with a variety of sensations, whether it’s nipples, or genitals, perhaps even feet. It is what feels good with the added vibrations of a bullet. Sex shouldn’t just mean intercourse, but all kinds of touch and play that feel good. And is most importantly fun. When exploring partnered play with the addition of toys, communication and consent are key. Have fun, because really, that’s what sex is all about. It doesn’t need to be super serious. It's okay to get the giggles and enjoy the new experience together. What should you be looking for when buying a bullet vibrator? There's something out there for everyone! Silicone-covered tips add a soft and luxe feeling to a simple toy, these also allow the toy to be easily cleaned. Remember though with silicone toys, go for a water-based lube as silicone-based lubes can damage them. Water resistance is also a good choice as some toys can be used for shower / bath-based fun. This really adds a little something to that candlelit bath for one, or hot steamy shower sex. When buying a bullet check to see if it is Water resistance/ Waterproof. Charging vs batteries, I for one never have the right size in, and now with sex toys we are also looking at new more environmentally friendly ways to get off. So many new toys come with fab sophisticated chargers now. If how your bullet gets its buzz is important to you, make sure you check out whether it takes batteries or is rechargeable. These recharging capabilities are great, just make sure you keep it charged and ready for when you need it. Nobody wants their bullet dying just as they are getting close! What are some of your favourite bullet vibrators? So Divine Satisfaction Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator has a silky smooth texture, is water resistant and rechargeable, plus it features 3 different speeds and 7 patterns. So Divine Afternoon Delight Bullet Vibrator is ideal for beginners and features a tapered tip that is perfect for massaging any of your external sweet spots such as the clitoris or nipples! Its discreet look and compact size make it the perfect travel companion to take away. So Divine Cosmo Bullet Vibrator features a rounded tip that is ideal for pin-point stimulation on the clitoris, nipples, penis and perineum. Use during partner play too for extra fun, as it is easy to hold so you can use it during sex for extra pleasure. This petite mini bullet is perfect to take
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Introducing the So Divine Wonder Bullet: Now Available in 707 Tesco Stores!
We’re thrilled to announce that our Wonder Bullet Vibrator is now available in 707 Tesco stores across the UK and on the So Divine website. This compact yet powerful pleasure product is designed for those who want to explore new sensations with ease, discretion, and style. Whether you're new to vibrators or a seasoned pro, the Wonder Bullet is your perfect bedside companion. what makes the wonder bullet special? pocket-sized power – Don’t let its size fool you! The Wonder Bullet is small but mighty, delivering intense vibrations for ultimate pleasure. USB rechargeable – Say goodbye to batteries! This bullet is USB rechargeable, making it both convenient and environmentally friendly. sleek & discreet – Designed to be travel-friendly and easy to store, it fits seamlessly into any routine. multiple vibration modes – With different settings to choose from, you can personalize your pleasure and discover what works best for you. made from premium silicone – Crafted from body-safe, high-quality silicone for a luxurious feel and smooth experience. Now that it’s easier than ever to grab a Wonder Bullet at Tesco or online, here are some expert tips on how to make the most of it! how to use a bullet vibrator for maximum pleasure 1. get comfortable with it If you’re new to using a bullet vibrator, start by familiarising yourself with its shape, texture, and vibration settings. Hold it in your hand and cycle through the speeds to find your favourite intensity level. 2. experiment with different erogenous zones While bullet vibrators are best known for clitoral stimulation, don’t be afraid to get creative! Try using it on the nipples, inner thighs, or other erogenous zones for a full-body pleasure experience. Just make sure you’re only using it on external pleasure spots as it’s not for internal use! 3. use It with a water-based lubricant A little bit of water-based lubricant can enhance the experience by reducing friction and making sensations even more intense. Be sure to use a lube that’s compatible with silicone toys for the best results. 4. try it solo or with a partner Bullet vibrators aren’t just for solo play! They’re a great way to spice things up with a partner. Use it during foreplay, explore mutual stimulation, or add it to your intimate moments to enhance pleasure for both of you. 5. keep it clean To maintain hygiene, always clean your bullet vibrator before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Let it dry completely before storing it away. Get Yours Today – SHOP NOW With the So Divine Wonder Bullet now stocked in 707 Tesco stores and available on the So Divine website, you can pick one up with your weekly shop or order online for convenience. Whether you're indulging in self-care or adding excitement to your love life, this powerful little vibe is here to deliver endless pleasure. Find your Wonder Bullet in Tesco or online today and discover why this small but mighty vibrator is a game-changer in intimate wellness!
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